Letters to My Future Husband #1

So after seeing a woman’s blog suggested by Lauren, (http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/) I saw her “Letters to my future husband” and thought that it would be fun to create entries of my own like that. She addresses them to herself, but I would address them to my future husband. I constantly catch myself observing couples in public: old and young, fat and thin, tall and short. What I find good and bad about their mannerisms and what they say to one another is stored in a small cabinet in the back of my head. I find myself looking to the future as often as twice a day. I observe my current relationship and think of what it might be like in the future with him. The only reason I’m crediting the woman is for the entry title. I feel as if it is sweet and constructive to building my expectations and what I want for myself as a future wife and mother. Things I want from myself and my future husband. So here it goes.

Dear Future Husband,

I am so happy we are together. I promise I will never forget the day we met nor or an anniversary. I promise to smile and ask how your day was every day, even if my day was awful. If you hate my cooking one night, I will try my best to make up for it the next meal. You can make me dinner too you know. I hope we can cherish our time together and neither of us will get sick early in life. Let’s travel after we get married. Let’s enjoy our time as a couple before settling down with children. Let’s have the best Christmas cards every year. Showing where we have been and how happy we are. 

Let’s get a puppy and name it after a car. Let’s grow a garden in our backyard and tend to it together every weekend. I will remind you of the things you forget but you must promise to appreciate the gesture. Let us always be honest with one another for secrets destroy souls. Be true to me as I will be to you. Let’s laugh with each other not at each other. 

Comfort me when I am down, as I will try to lift your spirits every day regardless.  Keep me in your thoughts throughout the day, while I keep you in mine. Kiss me with passion every time. Don’t forget that any goodbye could be the last. Let’s not go to bed angry, we have more important things to worry about. That’s all for now, see you someday.

Love, Your Future Wife